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Thursday, February 18, 2010

Why the Trafficking Victims Support Act of 2009, S2925, Needs Revised Before Supporting

Senator Ron Wyden of Oregon has introduced in the Senate S2925, the ‘‘Trafficking Deterrence and Victims Support Act of 2009,’’ “to establish a grant program to benefit victims of sex trafficking, and for other purposes.” It is likely you will be asked to sign a letter of support for this legislation if you haven’t already.

Since we are partners, we wanted to let you know our thoughts about this bill. Senator Wyden's efforts to increase funding for anti-trafficking work should be applauded. But we have asked an attorney who is a national expert on legislative matters to look at the bill. He has concluded that without some changes in the bill, there is no guarantee that any of these funds will go to grass-roots groups like yours, which do the lion's share of the work.

Here are the questions we must ask in evaluating any piece of legislation:

1. Will this bill help identify victims across the United States in substantially greater numbers ?

2. Will it get assistance into the hands of those organizations which are on the street every night, rescuing and aiding victims – namely, the victim assistance organizations which make up most of the Triple S Network (Stop Sex Slavery)?

The heart of the bill is the authorization of 6 “block grants” to eligible entities in the amount of $2,500,000 per year for a period of up to three years. Please note that the “eligible entities” are states or units of local government - not NGOs like yours. However, 25% of each award ($625,000 per year) must go toward the provision of shelter and services to victims of sex trafficking; 10% of each award ($250,000 per year) must go to an organization with an annual budget of $750,000 or less, to provide services to victims or training.

What might the result of this grant program be? Imagine this possible outcome: grants are awarded to the city of Baltimore MD, the State of Illinois, the city of Tampa FL, the State of Arizona, the city of Portland OR, and the city of Honolulu HI. In each of these sites, only one organization will receive a subgrant to provide services to victims. Is this substantially different from the current DOJ (Department of Justice) Task Force grants? Yes; instead of 30+ task forces there will be just 6 grants. Do these grantees have any significant incentive to find victims? No, the award is unrelated to performance as measured by victims rescued. How many victim service agencies will receive funding? Best case scenario, 6.

We believe this bill can be substantially improved by taking one of the six multi - million dollar grants proposed and creating a grant program solely for grass- roots victim-centered service providers, and we will be encouraging an amendment in this direction. We hope you will lend your support to our effort as we advocate for a more just grant-making program that will get funds directly to those already doing the work on the ground in all of our states. Remember this is why we formed Triple S in the first place. We are more powerful if we speak as one voice.

With all best wishes,

Laura Lederer and Steven Wagner

Laura J. Lederer, J.D.
President, Global Centurion
Adjunct Professor, Georgetown Law Center
www.globalcenturion.org

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Dr. Laura Lederer is an adviser for Beauty From Ashes and we are a member of the Triple S Network. Please do not support this bill until it is revised. Thank you.

Julie Shematz

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Let your voice be heard bill by visiting the open congress website: HERE

Safe Housing is More Than a Roof Over a Head for Sex Trafficking/Industry Victims

In a perfect world, the victims of human trafficking or sex industry are free to live a life happily ever after, once they are freed from the brutality of their pimps or traffickers. However, experts say the process of restoring a victim's life is much more complicated than what one might think it is. In fact, they argue that it takes more than counseling sessions or medical assistances for victims to be fully recovered from the bondage of sex industry or human trafficking.

Victims often re-victimized by the sex industry without assistance
Julie Shematz, a former stripper and a co-founder of BeautyfromAshes, an organization assisting victims of sex industry and trafficking, explains the complexity behind the treatment of the victims. She points out a few factors behind such complexity of the issue. The factors include, quick money, the victim's lack of life skill, and wounds caused by trauma.

Quick Money, wounds from trauma, and lack of life skills
Julie states that quick money was one of the reasons why she was pulled back to sex industry in the past as a stripper:

"Most are accustomed to being told what to do or alternately, working very little to make the money they need to survive. Making healthy decisions and exercising self discipline is a huge hurdle, yet necessary for even a simple 40 hour a week job at Walmart or waitressing. Not to mention that working a 40 hour week to earn what one previously could make in an hour or two is a tough transition."

She also points out wounds from trauma hinders victims from establishing healthy relationship in an normal environment. Julie says that as an advocates, she has witnessed so many victims moving church to church, community to community, or job to job because they have difficulties trusting other people or establishing a healthy relationship with other people surrounding them.

Many victims find the sex industry as a comfort zone.
Because of their wounds, it is much more difficult for them to trust people than an average Joe can, which becomes another factor to reinforce them to go back to the sex industry. As they find sex industry the only place where they feel accepted and affirmed, Julie says that the victims tend to return to "what is familiar, missing the only family they consider themselves to have."

Average Joe vs. victims in sex industry/trafficking
Julie also gave an example of a client who attended a school and was expelled not long after because of her behavioral problems. She says that their lack of life skills, including self-discipline, hinders them from starting a normal life for them. Average Joe Americans learn to get up early in the morning and go to school everyday as they are growing up under their parents' roof. They learn that they need to be disciplined in order to pass classes to graduate. When they group they apply the same life skill to their work environment to support themselves or bring bread and butter on the table for their families.

On the other hand, victims of sex trafficking or sex industry learn how to take care of themselves to attract customers. They also learn to rely on drugs or alcohol to cope with the stress caused by the exploitation or pimps. Instead of learning how to build a healthy relationship, they learned to be told what to do by their exploiters.

Safe housing for the victims means more than a roof over their heads
The only thing to prevent the victims from going back to the sex industry is to provide them a family environment to support them with unconditional love. And, the way to provide a family environment is to provide them a safe housing to live with other survivors of sex industry or human trafficking. An average Joe, regardless of how loving he/she is, will not understand the victims' pain and trauma caused by the sex industry. They will not understand why the victims feel the urge to go back to the sex industry and reach out for drugs to deal with the pains and trauma. Only the people who were in the industry can do so based on their experience in sex industry. People in the sex industry will understand the victims and may give them the shoulders to cry on, but they will not help them get out of the exploitation. Rather, they will try to pull them back to the further exploitation and vicious cycles of abuse. Hence, safe housing for the victims becomes a unique but vital family environment for the survivors to support each other to break away from the cycles. Do you still need more information to support their cause? Then check out these sites below:
BeautyFromAshes
RestoreNYC

Source: Norfolk Human Rights Examiner

Friday, February 12, 2010

Breaking the Silence against Child Sex Trafficking in America

There was a time when “domestic violence” didn’t exist. Merely forty years ago, society was silent when women were violated in the home; yet today, domestic violence is strongly prohibited, and programs and funding are in place to prosecute the abuser and protect and support the survivors.

Today we struggle with the problem of domestic minor sex trafficking – the exploitation of America’s children through prostitution, pornography and sexual entertainment. Prostituted children are raped multiple times an evening and held under physical and emotional threats from their trafficker — yet they aren’t given the sympathetic treatment that victims of domestic violence receive, even though their situations hold striking resemblances. How can the anti-trafficking movement learn from the success of the anti-domestic violence movement and shorten the time of success from forty years to…less?

In the anti-domestic violence movement women held the key in unveiling domestic violence by talking within their communities, opening shelters and pressing for laws that protect victims, charge abusers, and fund support programs for victims. Ordinary women in communities, at the grassroots level, raised funds and opened shelters. The very first shelter, Women’s Advocates in St. Paul, was opened in 1974 by a group of women who started responding to domestic violence by setting up a hotline and then quickly realized that what women and children needed most was a safe place so they could leave their situation of abuse. They funded the country’s first domestic violence shelter by sending letters to friends and family members, and by applying for every government funding program they could find.

Women led in lobbying for tougher laws and government funding. In doing so, they changed the way we as a society understand and approach domestic violence by giving voice to the problem and tackling the stigma and the silence directly. We now live in a time where acts of domestic violence are automatically recognized as crimes, and victims have support through laws, legal enforcement and government funding.

Today’s “battered wife” is the prostituted child. Victimized and stigmatized into silence and not aware of any place to escape, shelter or redress, these American children of domestic minor sex trafficking are left on the streets, repeatedly victimized and then identified as the cause of the problem of prostitution instead of the victim.

Experts estimate that at least 100,000 American juveniles are victimized through prostitution in America each year. In America, the average age for a child to be lured by a trafficker (pimp) into commercial sexual exploitation is just 13 years old. Once this child falls into the situation of prostitution, it becomes incredibly difficult for her to escape. She is financially dependent on the pimp, and like a victim of domestic violence, it is dangerous for her to try to leave. The hotlines with information, safe shelters to escape, strong laws and legal enforcement to protect them, and funding to support their survival and healing which allowed the battered woman to escape are critical also for the prostituted. These do not currently exist in the number required for a meaningful response to the crime of domestic minor sex trafficking.

The anti-trafficking movement can succeed in fighting the exploitation of children by taking a lesson from the movement to end domestic violence: increase support for the organizations that are raising awareness, setting up shelters, and advocating for tougher laws and government funding, and engage the community networks fully to be the safety net that is so badly needed by those children who are at-risk for trafficking or who have already become victims of this crime. Changing perceptions at the community level will affect the priorities of our leaders.

Source: Shared Hope International

FL #2 in Human Trafficking, Valentine's Outreaches & More News


20% of NATIONAL HUMAN TRAFFICKING CASES WERE IN LEE COUNTY FLORIDA: It was announced by Lieutenant Brad Hamilton, Intelligence Division of the Lee County Sheriff's Department, at the 2/11 Lee County Human Trafficking Task Force Meeting, that they have investigated 23 cases of human trafficking in the past 7 months of the approximate 200 that were investigated nationally in 2009. He expressed that the biggest gap in the system is services to victims: case management, mental health care and after care.

BEAUTY FROM ASHES SEX TRAFFICKING RESTORATION PROJECT: We have a detailed business plan to meet the needs of the victims, minors and adults, that addresses everything the Lieutenant expressed that includes an emergency shelter, long term residential safehome and a walk in resource center. Developed from our extensive experience working with victims and survivors since 2005, in addition to our founder's experience in the sex industry and human trafficking and advisers nationally, we believe that this unique model has the potential for setting the pace for sex trafficking restoration programs. If you are interested in finding out more and investing into this much needed, life transforming project, please contact Steve Shematz.

100,000 - 300,000 American kids a year are victimized through the practice of child prostitution. - Ernie Allen, National Center for Missing and Exploited Children. It is estimated that there are 800,000 people forced into modern day slavery annually, 80% are sex trafficking, 70% are women and children. Florida is the #2 state for human trafficking and South Florida is considered one of the top areas in terms of arrests, investigations and rescues of sex trafficking victims. The USA has invested millions of dollars into illegal immigrants and international victims of human trafficking, NOW is the time we invest in assisting our OWN victims of human trafficking. It is no coincidence that Beauty From Ashes is located in South Florida.

FOR THE LATEST IN DOMESTIC SEX TRAFFICKING NEWS: Beauty From Ashes Facebook Fan Page

FREEDOM SUNDAY:
On February 21, 2010, churches around the world will be praying for those held captive in honor of the first ever Freedom Sunday. Please join in this worldwide day of reflection by preaching about the freedom Jesus brings, singing songs of redemption. For more information on this Not For Sale event CLICK HERE

If you're interested in scheduling Beauty From Ashes to speak, exhibit or do a sex trafficking outreach training at your church or event, please contact us at booking@beautyfromashes.org or call 239.939.9218. Remember, awareness leads to intervention & prevention of human slavery!

VALENTINE'S STRIP CLUB OUTREACH: Saturday, February 13 7-10pm in our local adopted club. We'll be distributing gifts bags with the Father's Love Letter DVD, a valentine from Jesus, Bare Essential's make up kits, lip gloss, nail polish, Burt's Bee products and valentine's candies in addition to serving a delicious home cooked meal of beef stroganoff, vegetable casserole, rolls & butter and delectable deserts by Sugar Momma Cupcakes. Our next outreach is Saturday, February 29th and we are in need of food prep. Please contact us if you can make a dish.

ARTWORK AUCTIONED FOR FUND RAISER: Julie Shematz's multiple media artwork was auctioned at the Stiletto Art Project in Venice, FL on Saturday, February 6th. All proceeds go to the similar organization founded by Harmony Dust, a former sex worker, in California, Treasure's Out of Darkness. If you are interested in Julie making a custom piece of artwork for a fund raiser, please contact her at julie@julietheartist.com 100% of the proceeds of her artwork goes to sex slavery abolition and services for victims and survivors.

VOLUNTEERS NEEDED: Please contact Pastor Julie if you can assist in any of the below areas.
Administrative
Internet/Social Networking Shepherds (MySpace, Facebook & Twitter)
Gift Assembly/Shopping
Cooking
Outreach
Event Coordination
Case Management
Mentoring
Babysitting
Grant Writing

WEEKLY BIBLE STUDY: Every Monday 5:30 - 8:30 that includes dinner. We currently are studying Rick Warren's Life's Healing Choices and will resume the 2nd week of the curriculum on February 15th.

MONTHLY TEAM MEETINGS: The first Saturday of each month, that include inventorying beauty supply donations (from a national company/chain).

NEW VOLUNTEER ORIENTATION MEETING: Saturday, March 6th, 12:30 - 3.

Please RSVP attending the above meetings. Address and directions will be provided when you RSVP.

PRAYER REQUESTS: Please continue to pray for the women, men & children we serve in and from the sex industry. Agree with us for them to be set free from the bondages of sin and that they put their trust in Jesus Christ to be their Savior, Healer and Provider. We are in a season of applying for grants and to foundations, please agree with us for favor and that the resources be sent in from the North, South, East & West. For your prayer requests, email them to us at: prayer@beautyfromashes.org

TAX DEDUCTIBLE DONATIONS: For your love gift, we will give you our private label, Child of God, CD for a minimum donation of $35 plus $5 shipping as a way to say thank you. To give online securely online, CLICK HERE or send cash, check or money order to 5100 S. Cleveland Avenue, Suite 318-148, Fort Myers, FL 33907.

In His love & service.
Steve, Julie & the FREEdom™ Team

Beauty From Ashes™ Ministries
Where Victims Become Over-Comers
239.939.9218
877.4BFA SOS (423.2767) Toll Free Help Line
www.BeautyFromAshes.org

AWARENESS & PREVENTION • REACH & RESCUE • TEACH & DEMONSTRATE • TRAIN & SEND

Friday, February 5, 2010

Advocates Hope To Rescue UnderAge Superbowl Sex Slaves

   'The Super Bowl is obviously a really big deal for prostitution,' says Sandy Skelaney, a program manager at Kristi House, a program for sexually abused children.

Advocates hope to rescue underage Super Bowl sex slaves

MARSHA HALPER / MIAMI HERALD FILE

'The Super Bowl is obviously a really big deal for prostitution,' says Sandy Skelaney, a program manager at Kristi House, a program for sexually abused children.
Two dozen volunteers from around the country gathered inside a Miami conference room earlier this week to prepare for the Super Bowl.

They're not here for the game, though. They will spend several days fanning out through the city to rescue underage girls who have been trafficked to South Florida as sex workers.

``The Super Bowl is obviously a really big deal for prostitution,'' Sandy Skelaney, a program manager at Kristi House, a program for sexually abused children, told the group.

``We have a bunch of girls being brought down by pimps.''

Just as police, hoteliers, restaurateurs and retailers have prepared for the big game, so too have children's advocates. For weeks, volunteers have printed fliers, prepared scripts and organized outreach teams in an effort to identify -- and, with luck, rescue -- girls who are being forced into prostitution.

Last year, when the Super Bowl was held in Tampa, the state Department of Children & Families took in 24 children who were brought to the city to serve as sex workers, said Regina Bernadin, DCF's statewide human-trafficking coordinator.

``Miami is known as a destination city for human trafficking, and sporting events are generally recognized by the experts as magnets for prostitution,'' said Trudy Novicki, who heads Kristi House.

BIG DRAW

Under normal circumstances, Florida -- and Miami in particular -- draws more than its share of underaged sex workers, lured by large numbers of transient men, the glitz of South Beach and a steady stream of conventions, authorities say.

The Super Bowl is expected to generate as much traffic for prostitutes as it does for bartenders and bookies.

And though the girls on South Beach and in Downtown Miami may seem to be there voluntarily, authorities say they almost certainly are former runaways or foster kids who fell prey to human trafficking. Some are barely out of puberty.

Ernie Allen, who heads the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children, said girls typically enter prostitution at age 11 or 12.

``This is truly an example of supply and demand,'' Allen said. ``They use these kids as commodities for sale or trade, and go to where demand is the greatest, and where they can make the most money. That's why they follow events like the Super Bowl.''

Allen called child prostitutes ``21st-century slaves.''

Throughout the year, Miami-Dade police hold between 15 and 20 operations targeting underage prostitution. For major events, such as the Super Bowl, the department works with the FBI's Innocence Lost Task Force.

``At large events such as this, we increase our presence . . . with the ultimate goal being that no children are sexually exploited,'' Maj. Raul Ubieta, who works with the department's Strategic and Specialized Investigations Bureau, said through a spokesman.

At Kristi House Wednesday night, where the volunteers gathered, fliers sat on a desk with pictures of four missing girls, ages 14 to 17.

``What we're trying to do tonight is plant a seed of hope for someone,'' said Brad Dennis, a director with the Klaas Kids Foundation.

``Last year during the Tampa Super Bowl, the largest number of tips came in from hotel owners,'' he said.

The outreach workers are organized into eight teams, divvying up the Spanish-speakers and trying to have one man each. In teams of two, three or four, the volunteers -- who came from as far as New York City and Alabama -- spread out across Miami-Dade -- from South Beach to Hialeah to Downtown Miami.

The goal is to look for missing girls and underaged sex workers. When they find a promising candidate, they hand out a card with a rescue hotline number on it.

The volunteers have a script: ``I'm a volunteer that works with kids who are in the life. I know you may not have a lot of time, but this is our card in case you or someone you know needs help. It has a hotline number discreetly listed. This is so no one knows. Is there anything you need tonight?''

And general rules: Try not to approach big groups of girls. Don't walk up to anyone near a pimp.

Outreach workers carry a small, glossy pamphlet filled with the pictures of missing teenagers.

They are black, white and Hispanic, blonde, auburn and braided. The booklet includes a short introduction from the family of Amber Dubois, a 15-year-old Escondido, Calif. girl who vanished on Feb. 13, 2009, a short distance from her high school: ``I am a football fan, but this Super Bowl, the champions will not be the Colts or the Saints for me. It will be your search team. For every girl you find and rescue, it will be a game-winning touchdown all over again.''

The message was written by 70-year-old Sheila Welch, Amber's grandmother.

``To think that something that is supposed to be all-American, the sport of our country, actually has an underground of sex trafficking is horrible,'' Welch told The Miami Herald.

The girls pictured in the handbook ``all look like babies,'' Welch said. ``But they are not babies anymore. They lost their childhood.''

For the volunteers, reaching their targets is not an easy job. Novicki calls them ``a tough crowd.''

Said volunteer Eddy Ameen, the executive director of StandUp For Kids -- Miami: ``We are not seen as saviors.''

The girls the group encounters are streetwise, distrustful, hardened and fearful of strangers -- who can get them beaten if the girl's pimp feels threatened.

Some girls view their pimps as family: someone who fed them, clothed them, loved them when no one else would.

``Nobody is saying, `Thank goodness you came and saved me,' '' Novicki said. But on a good day, a girl may take the group's card and hang onto it. Some time later, she said -- maybe after a beating or a night of particularly rough sex -- a girl may find the card and use it.

BILLIONS IN REVENUE

The National Center estimates there are between 100,000 and 150,000 underaged sex workers who generate billions of dollars in revenue for their pimps. The girls can travel around the country in ``circuits.''

In May, DCF began identifying through the agency's hotline children who fell victim to human trafficking. To date, they have recovered almost 85 children -- the largest number, 17, last month, said DCF spokesman Joe Follick.

Shared Hope International, a research and rescue group, reported in May 2009 that during a five-year period of servitude, an underaged prostitute might be ``raped'' by 6,000 men -- assuming a five-night-a-week schedule.

And if the everyday job description of a child prostitute is bad enough, times of ``peak'' demand, such as a sporting event, are particularly disturbing.

``Children exploited through prostitution typically are given a quota by their trafficker/pimp of 10-15 buyers per night,'' the Shared Hope report says, adding, ``though some service providers report girls having been sold to as many as 45 buyers in a night at peak demand times, such as a sporting event or convention.''

For Carrie McGonigle, Amber Dubois' mother, finding her daughter as a sex worker would be a blessing, because all the other possibilities are arguably worse. ``It would be good news,'' McGonigle said. ``I've already dealt with what that would mean if we find her.''

Miami Herald staff writer Jared Goyette contributed to this report.

Thursday, February 4, 2010

Superbowl & Sex Trafficking in Miami


Super Bowl weekends in Miami have been remembered for Vince Lombardi’s final game, Joe Namath’s successful guarantee, Lynn Swann’s memorable catch, Jackie Smith’s memorable drop, Montana-to-Taylor, Steve Young and Peyton Manning’s first and only Super Bowl championship victories. They’ve also been remembered for various off-the-field criminal activities — from Stanley Wilson’s late-night cocaine binge to Eugene Robinson’s attempted purchase of an undercover police officer for oral sex. The National Football League loves Miami as a Super Bowl site for its abundance of entertainment options and its warm-weather climate during a cold winter in most of the country. Miami brings nightlife fun whether on South Beach or in Fort Lauderdale that can be harmless for tourists and residents alike. However, a drive down Biscayne Boulevard at 3am can offer vices that even athletes preparing for the biggest game of their lives fail to resist.

Miami’s criminal activity is not unique amongst metropolitan cities in the United States nor is its increased criminality during large sporting events (i.e. the Super Bowl, Olympics, or World Cup). Sex trafficking, however, is one crime more prevalent in Miami because of its attractiveness to potential buyers and its place as a hub for international business/immigration. Miami houses many immigrants (more susceptible to traffickers), both legal and illegal; some reside in unassimilated areas like Little Havana or Little Haiti, while others live in wealthy areas like Miami Lakes or Coral Gables. Business between US firms and firms in Latin America/Caribbean takes place in Downtown Miami/Fort Lauderdale which brings businessmen in and out of the cities on weekend trips with secret perks like massage parlors or street prostitutes.

Many victims of sex trafficking in South Florida are homeless or runaway children who fall into the hands of child predators, pimps and traffickers. StandUp For Kids Miami identified 2300 homeless youth in Miami-Dade county alone. Contributing to that number are missing foster children that should be monitored by the Florida Department of Children and Families, but have been lost over the last decade (See Rilya Wilson case, 2002). Urban poverty also contributes to trafficking in South Florida in communities such as Liberty City and Overtown where citizens have been priced out of expensive housing developments and were forced to live in shantytowns as late as 2007. Regardless of their background, one thing is clear: These children that end up on the streets are immediately targeted for the commercial sex trade. For these reasons, Kristi House, Stand Up For Kids, and KlaasKIDS Foundation will be out in the South Florida community on Super Bowl weekend to bring awareness of potential trafficking to area hotels, businesses, and citizens. By raising awareness of such a crucial issue, lives can be saved. Hopefully, Super Bowl XLIV won’t be the only memorable event from this weekend.

Source: Shared Hope International

Superbowl is Hot Spot Offering Sex For Sale in South Florida

Super Bowl is coming soon so are the traffickers

Super Bowl is a big event for most Americans whether they are madly in love with football or not. This year, the national event will take place in Miami Florida, where people know how to party and have fun. Many people are currently looking for the tickets to attend the game at the very last minute. Tickets are sold for more than 1500 dollars a piece along with the tickets at an exclusive clubs and bars for late night party.

By the way, do you know what else is will be going on in Miami? Sex trafficking and prostitution of women and children. Experts are well aware that big sports event like this is always coupled with increase in sex trafficking and prostitution. They are particularly concerned that this year may be worse than others as Florida is a hub of sex trafficking and child prostitution.

You can argue that sex should be treated just like alcohol, a method of entertainment. You may even go further to say that sex industry should be treated like any other industries. But, here is the thing; the products, commodities, or the people who are sold in the sex industry are different from a bottle of Vodka or beer. They are human, not commodities, with mind and soul. Whether they chose to enter the industry or not, it is damaging to them in every way, and the damage lasts for a long time. They suffer through psychological and physical problems including, depression, insomnia, Post-Traumatic Disorder, distorted liver system, sexual organs, or even joint pain as a result of being a commodity in the sex industry. They feel the psychological and physical pain when the customer throws her away out of frustration, whereas a bottle of Vodka will be broken but with no pain suffered by the Vodka itself.

So, dear sports fans, I hope that you have as much fun as you can on the day of Super Bowl. But, I wish you do so responsibly. When someone offers sex in Miami, consider my argument and think for a second to see if you would want anyone to treat your sister, mother, or even yourself as a bottle of Vodka or beer– a thing that can be possessed, abused, thrown away, and trashed at the end for the sake of your entertainment just because you paid for it. You may not think that your purchase for sex will not change a bit about human trafficking and sex industry in the U.S., but you, by doing so, become another person to set a trend that a big sports event is coupled with increase in prostitution and sex trafficking in the future.

To check out more articles on human trafficking written by Youngbee Dale, visit Norfolk Human Rights Examiner.

Source: Restore. Minor grammar edits to original article.

Wednesday, February 3, 2010

FGCU Update & Upcoming Events/VOLUNTEERS NEEDED


Dear friends, family & slavery abolitionists,

We very much enjoyed meeting so many new people at Florida Gulf Coast University (FGCU) last week and I apologize it's taken me a week or so to respond, especially to those of you who signed up to volunteer. For those of you who submitted your 'One Thing' to be said on behalf of the victims, THANK YOU! The university event evaluations revealed the they LOVED hearing from YOU and it was my honor to be your voice.

FGCU's Student Abolitionist Movement has invited me back to speak for 90 minutes on March 25th 5:30-7pm & we couldn't be more pleased with how the week of events went. My self portrait of Jesus holding me, Rescued: Saved by Grace & In His Grip, was placed front & center of the Not For Sale presentation the first night featuring David Bastone. How cool was that?! We had a freshman student approach me after the second evening I spoke that is a survivor of domestic minor sex trafficking that we've embraced and are now working with.

We currently have 4 women in restoration residential programs and are assisting 4 others in higher education pursuits through the Rahab's Hope Fund, not to mention the 40-50 women I work with weekly in addition to numerous men that Steve is working with that have or currently are struggling with porn addiction. We also are working with victims of human trafficking that have been incarcerated. We're blessed to see their growth weekly and are hopeful they will have the courage needed to become key witnesses to bring about the prosecution of their perpetrators.

I was interviewed twice last week with MSNBC for a documentary they are doing on sex trafficking and the Healing Today Show ran their 30 minute interview with me Monday. You can view it on our YouTube channel.

We are amazed at the open doors & exposure of BFA that God has provided so early in the year and are in desperate need of help with managing what God has entrusted to us. We have plenty of areas in which you can serve, including the following:

Administrative
Internet/Social Networking
Gift Assembly/Shopping
Cooking
Outreach
Event Coordination
Case Management
Mentoring
Babysitting

We have TEAM MEETINGS the first Saturday of each month, that include inventorying beauty supply donations (from an national company/chain). We will have one this Saturday, February 6th from 9am - noon.

Additionally, we will be having a NEW VOLUNTEER ORIENTATION MEETING combined with our Valentine's gift assembly on Monday, February 8th 5:30 - 8:30 (dinner included).

Every Monday from 5:30 - 8:30 we have a BIBLE STUDY that includes dinner. We currently are studying Rick Warren's Life's Healing Choices and will resume the 2nd week of the curriculum on February 15th.

Please RSVP attending as I need to know a head count & have to call in visitors to the guard house in the gated community we meet inside of. Address and directions will be provided when you RSVP.

Our next STRIP CLUB OUTREACH is Saturday, February 13th 7-10pm. If you can prepare a dish, please contact me. We have the entree covered (beef stroganoff...thanks Donna!) and are in need of a salad, bread and dessert. We typically serve 20-25 people. We also have an outreach on February 27th we'll need comfort food prepared for.

If you can't make the upcoming meeting(s) and are still interested in serving along side us, please contact me.

If you can't give of your time and want to give financially, we are still offering our Child of God CD for a minimum donation of $35 plus $5 shipping as a way to say thank you. To give online securely online, CLICK HERE or send cash, check or money order to 5100 S. Cleveland Avenue, Suite 318-148, Fort Myers, FL 33907.

FREEDOM SUNDAY:
On February 21, 2010, churches around the world will be praying for those held captive in honor of the first ever Freedom Sunday. Please join in this worldwide day of reflection by preaching about the freedom Jesus brings, singing songs of redemption. For more information on this Not For Sale event CLICK HERE

If you're interested in scheduling myself and/or our team to speak or exhibit at your church, meeting or event, please contact us at booking@beautyfromashes.org or call 239.939.9218. Remember, awareness leads to intervention & prevention of human slavery!

I look forward to hearing from you and partnering together to reach, rescue & restore victims of sex trafficking. Together we are better and are making difference!

In His lavish love & fire,
Pastor Julie Shematz & the FREEdom™ Team

Beauty From Ashes™ Ministries
Where Victims Become Over-Comers
239.939.9218
877.4BFA SOS (423.2767) International Toll Free Help Line
www.BeautyFromAshes.org

Tuesday, January 19, 2010

BFA on NBC & FGCU Human Slavery Symposium


NBC2 News did a story on human trafficking, Southwest Florida Children Sold As Sex Slaves, featuring Beauty From Ashes on 1/18/10. To view the story, CLICK HERE

HUMAN SLAVERY SYMPOSIUM, Out of the Shadows, begins this week at Florida Gulf Coast University. Beauty From Ashes will be exhibiting and selling hand made items of jewelry, bags & artwork by over-comers of sex slavery in the Student Union Ballroom Wednesday, January 20th 3pm - 9:30pm, Monday January 25th 4pm - 8pm and Wednesday, January 27th 8am - 5pm. For more information and to register, CLICK HERE

Our very own over-comer and founder, Julie Shematz, will be speaking at 7:30pm Wednesday, January 20th and introducing keynote speaker, David Batstone of Not For Sale. She will also be on the Outreach, Education and Prevention panel at 7:15pm on Monday, January 25th and representing the voice of the victims on Wednesday, January 27th 11:30am.

VOLUNTEERS for symposium: Set up team please arrive 60 minutes prior to opening of events and please dress in black and white.

PRAYER REQUESTS: Please stand in the gap with us for God to complete the good work He has begun in the lives of the women and youth we have influence in. The journey to healing is often a very painful process that many will not commit to preferring to run and return the captivity they were delivered out of. Please pray for strength, wisdom and perseverance for leadership and first response workers interacting with the victims of human trafficking and the sex industry. Send your prayer requests to: prayer@beautyfromashes.org We have prayer teams ready & willing to stand in the gap for your needs as well.

THECALL2XXX: Global unified prayer for the victims of commercialized sexual exploitation, human trafficking and the organizations providing services to them is every Friday 8-9am EST. Please join us. For prayer guide, CLICK HERE

CHILD OF GOD CD: Beauty From Ashes' private label, fund raising, 10 song CD is available for a minimum love gift of $35 ($5 is for shipping). For more info, CLICK HERE

For the LATEST NATIONAL NEWS ON SEX TRAFFICKING join our facebook Fan Page, CLICK HERE

Thank you for your love, encouragement & support. Because of you, we are making a difference.

In His love & passion to see victims become over-comers,

Steve, Julie & the FREEdom™ Team

Beauty From Ashes™ Ministries
Where Victims Become Over-Comers
239.939.9218
877.4BFA SOS (423.2767) International Toll Free Help Line
Beauty From Ashes Ministries

AWARENESS & PREVENTION • REACH & RESCUE • TEACH & DEMONSTRATE • TRAIN & SEND

Wednesday, January 13, 2010

Path to Recovery & Upcoming Events



“For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against rulers, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms.” Ephesians 6:12


None of us can escape the effects of spiritual warfare. We are all vulnerable, and the world fractures us in many ways throughout our lives. Consequently, we are unable to avoid traumas, some of which leave long lasting scars.


Particularly when they come during childhood, traumas can have profoundly detrimental effects. Even careful parents cannot keep children completely out of harm’s way. Kids will be traumatized one way or another, and many people spend much of their adult lives trying to overcome the effects of early traumas. Trying to overcome the effects of the early traumas is usually not recognized as such, because it takes the form of struggling through life, reading the latest self-improvement books, and feeling stuck with an annoying bad habit. These are attempts to change the trauma effects without looking at the trauma that produced the effects.


About a third of us have been traumatized as children in the form of physical or sexual abuse, many more suffer from the absences of good things that are necessary for emotional maturation, and help is not usually available. School failure, depression, anxiety, poor self-esteem, chronic physical illness, violent behavior, and disturbing sexual urges are some of the common after-effects of childhood traumas. When they go untreated, the children carry these effects along with them into adulthood. Woundedness, dividedness, isolation, and oppression are the result of leaving the trauma wounds unidentified and unhealed.


They really need for the people who love them to encourage them to find out where their pain is coming from, and to accompany them on their path to recovery. Without the help of a caring community around them, their woundedness, dividedness, isolation, and oppression will prevent them from getting to wholeness. The Life Model: Living From the Heart Jesus Gave You, page 21-22, Dr. James G. Friesen.


We at Beauty From Ashes™ are committed to providing the necessary survivor centered services for victims of commercialized sexual exploitation and sex trafficking.


In the aftermath of a trafficking experience, the physical and psychological control tactics used by traffickers, combined with the physical and sexual abuses perpetrated leave both deep emotional scars and physical damage. Hands That Heal: page XV, Beth & Cindy Lopez Hudlin.


Although their wounds seem daunting, our holistic, community-based approach gives them the best opportunity to heal as they embark on their path to recovery. Working with licensed Christian therapists and through community partnerships, we have been able to embrace the wounded and offer them the multi-faceted care they deserve.


Below is a quote from a resident, a former victim of domestic minor sex trafficking, currently living in our first FREEdom™ Home:


"While living in the FREEdom™ safehome, I am challenged by the commitment needed to pursue wholeness. I am encouraged by the fact that it’s not me healing alone, and it is God's power and presence in my life that is nurturing and healing me. The most impacting part of living in the FREEdom™ home has been the emphasis placed on an intimate relationship with Daddy God, healing and the importance of a healthy, safe and loving community. I’m learning what it means to live a life of abundance and joy here at the FREEdom™ home; I have celebrated my birthday for the first time, experienced Christmas in a healthy family setting, and even watched a football game while eating chocolate chip cookies. I am beginning to understand that through Christ's forgiveness and acceptance, I am clean. Seeing more brothers and sisters in Christ come alongside me is proving to me how much God wants me to heal."


Facing the new year in the middle of a national financial crisis, we need your help like never before. Will you please prayerfully consider coming along side us to help these precious women heal and experience healthy firsts? Your love gift will give a young woman hope that God truly desires wholeness out of her brokenness. It will help us to continue reaching, rescuing, restoring and advocating for them.


All donations are tax deductible. Write check to Beauty From Ashes and mail to 5100 S. Cleveland Avenue, Suite 318-148, Fort Myers, FL 33907 or give securely online HERE


For a minimum gift of $35 ($5 shipping), we'll send you our 10 song private label, Beauty From Ashes™ Child of God CD.


Thank you for partnering with us in supporting their path to recovery. Together we are better and are making a difference.


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UPCOMING EVENTS:

ABC/NBC News Story on Beauty From Ashes, Julie and human trafficking Monday, January 18th.


Out of the Shadows Human Trafficking Conference, Julie Shematz will be speaking on behalf of victims, January 20, 25 & 27th at Florida Gulf Coast University. Beauty From Ashes will also be exhibiting hand made jewelry, bags, artwork & items made by over-comers.


Strip Club Outreach, January 28th, Fort Myers Beach, FL


Stiletto Project Art Show, Julie Shematz showing & art auction of paintings by over-comers, February 6th, Gallery AK1511, Venice, CA. Proceeds go to Treasures & Beauty From Ashes. To view Julie's entry, CLICK HERE


Life's Healing Choices Bible Study & Meal, Mondays Ongoing, 5:30 - 8pm, Fort Myers, FL


VOLUNTEER OPPORTUNITIES: Contact Us

PRAYER REQUESTS: Contact Us

SCHEDULE A BEAUTY FROM ASHES' SPEAKER/EVENT: Contact Us


In His love & passion to see victims become over-comers,

Steve, Julie & the FREEdom™ Team


Beauty From Ashes™ Ministries
Where Victims Become Over-Comers™
239.939.9218
877.4BFA SOS (423.2767) International Toll Free Help Line

AWARENESS & PREVENTION • REACH & RESCUE • TEACH & DEMONSTRATE • TRAIN & SEND